Welcome to my Club
THIS IS WHERE PEOPLE COME TO GET LOVED!
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The Get Loved Club is a safe space with a crew like no other.
A place where you come to feel alive again.
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Here, you don’t have to have it all together.
You don’t have to perform.
You don’t have to be “the strong one” or have all the answers.
Here, you get to be your full self - messy, powerful, emotional, human.​​​
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The Get Loved Club invites you to get messy, reconnect to your body, your pleasure, and your self-trust through counselling, nervous system regulation, workshops & events, retreats and modernised sex education, guided by my four-pillar approach:
Regulate. Awaken. Expand. Rewire.
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Here, we Get Loved!
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My Philosophy
HEALING SHOULD INCLUDE YOUR BODY & YOUR MIND
The Get Loved Club exists because traditional healing often misses the WHOLE picture.
Most people I work with aren’t broken. They’re overwhelmed, disconnected, and stuck in survival mode.
And while talk therapy, self-development, journaling, and doing all the “right things” can bring awareness… they often don’t create change in the places that matter most: your nervous system, your body, your pleasure centre and your relationships.
Because real transformation isn’t just cognitive. It’s embodied.
It happens in how safe you feel in your body, how you connect to others, how you experience desire, confidence, and emotional regulation in real time.
That’s why my work blends counselling, sexology, nervous system regulation, and experiential therapies.
This isn’t just talking about your patterns - it’s working with them through experience.
Through breathwork, embodiment, nature-based practices, discomfort, pleasure, and real relational awareness. Because you don’t just think your way into change - you feel your way into it.
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I don’t just want you functioning.
I want you regulated, confident, connected… and a little bit turned on by your life.
I want you to GET LOVED!
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Everything I offer is structured through four core pillars:
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The 4 pillars!
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BREATH (Regulate)
Control your breath, control yourself!
Supporting your nervous system to slow the f**k down, feel safe, and come out of constant fight, flight, or shutdown.
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PLEASURE (Awaken) - Be the Honey!
Through simple joys, embodiment, and sexual energy as life-force, you learn to tap into your feminine essence - because a well-fucked, fully expressed woman is confident, powerful, and impossible to ignore.
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DISCOMFORT (Expand)
Because MAGIC happens outside of your comfort zone! Confidence isn’t something you think your way into - it’s built by doing hard things and realising you can handle them.
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MINDSET (Rewire)
Change the patterns in your mind that keep you stuck in the same relationships, the same self-doubt, and the same cycles.
Using psychology, nervous system work, and cognitive restructuring, we rewire the way you think so your life can actually change.
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About me...
My name is Lahnee & I’m an ACA registered counsellor with a Master’s degree, a background in trauma-informed therapy, nervous system work, relationship counselling, and over a decade of experience in sex and pleasure education. I’ve spoken at a range of events, hosted retreats around the world, and been recognised in the industry, including receiving an award for Best Sex Therapist.
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My work blends psychology with embodiment, emotional safety, and pleasure-positive education, because real healing doesn’t just happen in your mind, it happens in your body and in your relationships too. I use a range of modalities with a special interest in Ocean, Pleasure & Equine Therapy for those willing to try something a little different.
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Ready to Get Loved? ​​
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